63 Comments

  1. Krista
    December 9, 2015 @ 11:24 am

    Just wondering is you can forward this letter to me via email…. signed Lazy Momma!

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    • Vicki
      December 9, 2015 @ 3:50 pm

      Your comment made me laugh. I will have to check on this 🙂

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      • Nicole
        December 13, 2015 @ 11:55 pm

        Could I have it sent to me as well? Thank you!

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    • Vicki
      December 9, 2015 @ 3:59 pm

      You are in luck, Krista! I am sending you the letter minus the name! Please share your pic with us when you do it! We are on Instagram, just tag us @themotherlist. Have fun!

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      • Aisha
        December 9, 2015 @ 8:43 pm

        Could you send me the letter as well? Signed Tired and lazy mom 🙂

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        • Vicki
          December 9, 2015 @ 9:31 pm

          Sent! Thanks, be sure to tag us @themotherlist if you post it on Instagram! We would love to see all the elf pictures!

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      • Steph
        December 10, 2015 @ 9:48 am

        Where do you really bring the toys so they can go to needy kids? Local church?

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        • Vicki
          December 10, 2015 @ 1:05 pm

          Hi Steph! Yes, I do take our toys to the church, except for a few I sent to a local school because they were asking for gently used toys for the very same reason! If you have any other places that accept them, I would love to hear about them!

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  2. Heather Gregg
    December 9, 2015 @ 1:03 pm

    This makes me mad. Why are we tricking kids with magic into being kind and generous? Or bribing them? Why can’t they share out of the goodness of their hearts?

    I tell my kids: we are lucky to be able to buy all the things we want and need. Some kids don’t have any toys, or parents, or money. Let’s gather up some of your toys to give to those kids. Let’s share our luck and wealth.

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    • HeyaMeyer
      December 9, 2015 @ 2:49 pm

      I think the letter is a step in the right direction, but I agree… Every couple of months, we have our 5 year old gather toys he doesn’t play with and we go and give them to the “poor kids”. We don’t have a lot of money, but our child is extremely fortunate and never without. We make sure he understands that.

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      • Vicki
        December 9, 2015 @ 3:57 pm

        I love that! My kids have gotten so used to it that when I am doing a spring cleaning of their rooms and moving toys about they help me sort which they would like to give. We are personally giving less gifts this year and focusing more spending time together this year. My kids think of these gifts as something extra special.

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      • Casieopea
        December 11, 2015 @ 6:40 am

        wellllll tricking children with “magic” is the whole christmas thing – as well as the whole elf thing…so I guess I look at it as just continuing down that road, Heather. I cant see a real difference in ethics between making believe that an elf from the north pole is sitting around my house making reports to an imaginary benefactor who will bring gifts if your child is “good enough” and saying that this imaginary person thinks it’s a good idea to tidy up and give away your toys to the needy, in all honesty.

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    • Vicki
      December 9, 2015 @ 3:55 pm

      I’m sorry it made you mad, I do understand your point. We do practice giving all year long and my children participate in Operation Christmas Child every Christmas. But we have an Elf on The Shelf and we wanted it to be something more than just a sneaky elf that is watching them.

      I also feel this is a good way to tell them that not every family is given a ton of gifts and also gives the kids a way to help Santa. For families that do have Scout Elves, it turns it from the Scout Elf just being a spy for Santa into being a part of the family enjoying giving and sharing with others.

      I think it is awesome that your kids share their luck and wealth with others. In our family we have told our kids it is just an extra special thing we are giving, and they tend to take a little more time and care with picking out a toy that has given them lots of love and good memories.

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    • Melanie
      December 10, 2015 @ 11:05 am

      I’m right there with you Heather.

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      • Melanie
        December 10, 2015 @ 11:09 am

        Agree with Heather Gregg

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  3. Patti
    December 9, 2015 @ 7:14 pm

    Could you also send me the letter?
    Thanks
    Patti

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    • Vicki
      December 9, 2015 @ 9:29 pm

      Done! Thanks!

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      • Yany
        December 10, 2015 @ 7:44 am

        I would love a copy of the letter as well. I think this is a great start in the right direction.

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  4. Jennifer
    December 9, 2015 @ 9:35 pm

    I would also love a copy of this letter!!! Great job!!!! This actually brought me to tears, so sweet!!! I cannot wait to do this with my little love. She loves her “Trixie”!
    Thanks so much!!!

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:10 pm

      What a cute name, Trixie! We named ours Family Stanley. Each of my children chose one word and that is what they combined into! I sent the letter, I hope you and your daughter enjoy!

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  5. Laura nichols
    December 9, 2015 @ 9:58 pm

    Please send me the letter….this is a really great idea

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:09 pm

      Thank you! The letter has been sent!

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  6. Michele Downard
    December 9, 2015 @ 10:32 pm

    Could I please get a copy of this letter? I would love to do this with my son! Great idea! Thank you!!!

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:08 pm

      Sent! You are welcome and enjoy!

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  7. Bernard McKeon
    December 10, 2015 @ 3:59 am

    Could you also send me the letter, please.
    Thanks,
    Bernard

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:08 pm

      It has been sent! Enjoy!

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  8. Heather
    December 10, 2015 @ 6:36 am

    Vicky,

    I so love this, such a great idea! I see everyone’s side and while my child gets great enjoyment out of giving many things to children that are less fortunate, I can understand too that this can be difficult for younger children to completely comprehend. My little guy and I have been donating to a local food pantry as well as donating to various other organizations since he was about 2, so he is very aware that there are many people in need…..not just during the holidays, but every day of the year. I love this letter as you said, because “it is a step in the right direction” and I think it really does provoke and reinforce “sharing” in a positive way. I can still hear the sound of the bell as the magic still exists for me :-)…….bravo to you!!! Would you mind sending me a copy?

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:07 pm

      I love love love this comment and will treasure it! That particular movie/book is one of my absolute favorites this time of year! I have sent the letter to you, I hope you and your family enjoy! And thank you!

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  9. Valerie
    December 10, 2015 @ 7:45 am

    Love this idea! ! Please send me a copy to if you can. As for the negative comment I read. REALLY here it’s an idea to help (kids have new perspective, and help the moms out ) if you don’t agree that’s fine but please don’t put the negative out there especially when you don’t hs be to read it, do it, or like it. Just saying.

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:06 pm

      Sent Valerie! I hope you enjoy!

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  10. Eva
    December 10, 2015 @ 8:23 am

    Good idea….

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:06 pm

      Thank you! It has been fun!

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  11. Maya
    December 10, 2015 @ 8:52 am

    Can you please email me this letter too please? Thanks so much! And happy holidays.

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:05 pm

      Sent! You are welcome and Happy Holidays to you as well!

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  12. Beth
    December 10, 2015 @ 9:45 am

    Can you send to me via email as well? Such a great idea.

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:05 pm

      Sent Beth! Enjoy and thank you!

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  13. Katrina
    December 10, 2015 @ 10:21 am

    I think this a wonderful idea, I took my kids this year to pick names from the Angel Tree at Walmart to help them understand that not all kids have as much as they do. We are not rich by no means but he doesn’t go without ever. Would you be willing to send me the letter please? I work night shift and never really have time to do much besides work & take care of my Turkeys

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:03 pm

      I love the Angel Tree! The letter has been sent, enjoy!

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  14. Alyson Ramsey
    December 10, 2015 @ 10:47 am

    I love this idea! I would love the letter via email too, if you are sending it out!

    Thank you for sharing this!!

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:03 pm

      Sent for you!

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  15. susan
    December 10, 2015 @ 11:02 am

    Can you kindly send me the letter as well?
    Thank you and wish you and yours amazing blessings.

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 1:03 pm

      It has been sent! Than you and blessings to you and yours as well!

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  16. Tina
    December 10, 2015 @ 11:17 am

    I would LOVE a copy of the letter 😉 Please and thank you!!!!

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    • Vicki
      December 10, 2015 @ 12:59 pm

      Sent and you are welcome!

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  17. Laura
    December 10, 2015 @ 2:35 pm

    Could you please send me the letter as well!
    Thanks –
    “A full mom!” (I set a goal to avoid the word “busy” this year and remind myself that life is full, which is a good thing!

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  18. Jenni
    December 10, 2015 @ 3:24 pm

    Hello! This is such a wonderful idea I love it! If you could send me a copy of your letter it would be so much appreciated!

    Thanks again for coming up with such a wonderful idea!

    Merry Christmas to you 🙂

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  19. Angela
    December 10, 2015 @ 3:53 pm

    Could you please send me a copy as well?
    I love this idea!

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  20. Kelly OFarrell
    December 10, 2015 @ 6:13 pm

    Hello! This is such a wonderful idea I love it! If you could send me a copy of your letter it would be so much appreciated!

    Thanks again for coming up with such a wonderful idea!

    Merry Christmas to you 🙂

    Thank you again!

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  21. Kim
    December 10, 2015 @ 6:58 pm

    I would love a copy of the letter. Merry Christmas!

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  22. Dana
    December 10, 2015 @ 11:00 pm

    Could I get a copy of the letter as well please?

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  23. Trevor Coombe
    December 11, 2015 @ 4:56 am

    Another request to send please?

    Many thanks! 🙂

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  24. DJ
    December 11, 2015 @ 11:03 am

    I’d love to get this via email…but you should actually just post the text so you don’t have all these emails to send out… 😉

    Thanks.

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    • Mel
      December 14, 2015 @ 7:54 pm

      Hey DJ, I was just going to post the same thing!
      I too would love a copy, but could just copy and paste off of these replies…
      But I will happily type it out myself too 🙂
      Love this idea

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  25. Jo
    December 12, 2015 @ 7:58 am

    Hi Viki!

    Love this letter, would you please send me a copy ?

    Thanks,
    Jo

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  26. Amanda
    December 12, 2015 @ 10:40 am

    Can you please send me the letter too? Thank you!! 🙂

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  27. Shawna
    December 12, 2015 @ 11:41 am

    Hi Vicki,
    Can I also get a copy of the letter? Thanks so much!

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  28. Tami
    December 12, 2015 @ 1:07 pm

    I would love a copy of this letter.

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  29. Suzi
    December 12, 2015 @ 7:12 pm

    Could you please email the letter to me? My three year old son and I donated a bunch of toys and clothes in October to flood victims in Columbia, SC. He understood that his items were going to a boy his age, who had lost everything. He has been asking to give him more, so this will tie our elf in perfectly. Thank you!

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  30. Angela
    December 12, 2015 @ 10:40 pm

    Could you also send me a copy as well. Thank you so much!

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  31. Amanda Giles
    December 13, 2015 @ 8:17 am

    I would love a copy too…please send me the email. 🙂

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  32. Cindy A
    November 30, 2018 @ 10:37 pm

    Just stumbled across your blog when looking for ideas. I love this as I have been trying to get my daughters to get rid of some older toys. Can you email this to me please?

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  33. slbno1
    December 8, 2018 @ 11:06 am

    WoW! I ♥, ♥, ♥, this! So doggone creative! The Elf on the Shelf thing, has come to light, since my babies were young enough to enjoy the enigma of it all..28,25, & 19. This wold have been fun for them though! I guess I had very generous kids, because when they grew uninterested in an item they had in their arsenal, they always let me know. My kids didn’t have an overabundance of toys and clutter though. Not because we couldn’t buy for them..more because there were more fun things to do outside. Also lots of yard work and various things to do outside. No! They never got paid for helping. I feel by not paying them for their labour, they learned many more lessons, than money. My children also donated beautiful clothes, they had outgrown. We were also helpers at the food mission on holidays, and sometimes for breakfast, when they weren’t in school.

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  34. Kristen
    December 9, 2018 @ 7:46 am

    Is there a link to get this letter or could you send it to me?
    Thanks!!

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